I have often thought about this and I believe for the most part, people used their heads when faced in a serious situation. It is easy, right? Yes or no answers are always difficult when in matters of the heart. For instance, ‘LOVE”.
When you have a broken heart and are trying to let go of someone who does not and will not love you back, do you follow your heart or your head? I, being an emotional person I use my heart. I know that if I do this, my logical side will come out better for it. But that is who I am. For others, it may not be the best course of action.
Most people after a break up can simply justify all the bad and move on. They say to themselves over and over again: “This relationship was bad for me, and I will not tolerate any bad behavior”. Congratulations!!! Your head is better than your heart? Or is it?
So therefore because we are all humans and have different perspectives on how to move on after a bad break up, can we honestly know who prevails in the end?
all the best,